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Begin your day with a prayer or meditation
Rather than going straight for your phone, take a few moments to meditate. If you are religious then take a few moments to thank God, ask him to make sure you have a good day and anything else you would like to say.
You can also start with a dream journal. Write down any dreams you remember. Dreams are an inside into your deep consciousness. Go on Google and search what your dreams meant.
Doing these will help relax the brain to help it wake up. Give you a sense of peace rather than starting the day asap.
Observe your breathing
When we are anxious or uoset our breathing becomes irregualr, our hearts starts racing faster and it becomes hard to think of anything. Wehn we are releaxed, our breathing and heart is at normal pace.
Make sure you take deep breaths in and out whenever you get stressed. This will help calm the body and mind down.
Change where you eat lunch
Use your lunchtime as a way to be with yourself. To clear your mind of what has happened during the day so far. Use this time to focus on your breathing.
Look at nature, smell the flowers or look at the birds roaming around.
In related news- change what you eat. If you are bringing snacks and unhealthy food to your job then this can effect your mood. Bring some fruit, vegetables and nuts.
Try drinking water once in a while instead of 10 cups of coffee. Something like Propel or Gatorade that can help build those electrolyte which helps you stay hydrated. Hydration is a key to happiness. Coffee is great but is also gives you the jitters which just makes this that much terrible.
Try walking in someone else’s shoes
This does not mean to go steal someone else’s shoes. No, it means to try and see where they are coming from.
Maybe they are in a bad mood because life is just treating them bad. Maybe they just need someone to ask if they are ok or need help. You never know what other people are feeling so try and be nice. You never know if that one act of kindness saves someone’s life or makes their day better.
The best way to confuse someone is to smile at them
Take a sick day
Sometimes you just need some time off. Call into work if things become bad. Take a day for you just to rest and practice a little self care.
Don’t call in every week. If you are having that much problem then either speak to someone at work to see what they can do. Or find another job.
Concentrate on one task, not the outcome or other task you need to do
Do not bring your work problems home
If you are stressed at home about work then it will affect those around you. They will start questioning things and you may become distant. Then when you get to work the next day, you will feel refreshed and ready to take on the new day.
Do not bring the problems you have at home to work
When to find a new job
Deciding to leave a job may be scary but if it not working out in your favor (especially your mental health) then it is time to leave.
Signs to leave-
- You tried all these tips
- Your body and mind is saying stop
- You talked to your boss and they are no help
- You even went to therapy
- You feel physically and mentally attacked
- You feel you are headed for a breakdown
- You know it is not fair on your work or coworkers
No amount of money is worth risking your health wether physical or mental
In the long run you will be doing yourself and your work a favor. When you mental health struggles so does life around you. So make sure you leave to a less stressful job before you breakdown.
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