How to be Sure You Got a Great Friend

Hey friends and welcome back to my blog.

Friendships come and friendships go, this we know is certain. The best friendships last forever even if you drift away. You know you can still count on that friend and reconnect with them once you see them again.

Recently I did a post called 8 Top Ways to Tell if You Have a Toxic Friendship , which has been one of my most popular post ever!! Thank you for that 🙂 Today I decided to go the opposite route and tell you if you have a great friendship. 

I know this should be a topic that we really don’t need to discuss since it should be obvious. However, from my past post I can tell that maybe some people need some help. So be sure you read both posts so you can be sure that you are getting the best out of all the friendship you try to make.

You deserve to have a great friend.
You don’t deserve a toxic friend.
I know it can be hard to build friendships (maybe I can help you with that in a future post, even if I don’t really know how myself. Comment if you would like to see that)  but it can be done

Be sure to comment down below any other keys that would tell you a friendship is great

1. They are always there for you
   It could be 3am and you know this friend would answer your call or text. They will put their own personal life aside just to comfort you
In school, you can trust that this person will not ditch you for the popular kids. You can be the least popular kid and they will be there by you side.

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2. They will always support you
You just got a huge promotion and this friend would be the first one to congratulate you. Even if they were going for the same promotion.
Any accomplish you have either big or small, you know who will be in your corner.
Just know that they may not support you if you murder someone or convict a felony. No person should support a murderer. Anything other then that and you will be good.
This also could mean that if you are having some kind of confict in school or work, they will support your side.

3. They will never take anything from you
  This could be money, job, boyfriend/girlfriend. If they borrow money then they will be sure to pay you back.
They take your feeling into consideration before asking for anything.

4. You can trust them with your life
  You know this person would never do anything to put your life or whoever you love life’s at risk.
They will take a bullet for you as you would for them.
They will always keep your secrets (unless it is a murder secret) , they will even hate who you hate just because they are that good of a friend

5. They will be honest yet still caring
  You can come to this friend with any issue and they will tell you the truth. Think an outfit is bad? They got your back. They will say if that crush you have is not a good fit for you.
They know the right words to say in order to not ruin your friendship or hurt your feelings.

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There you have it. I do hope you enjoy this post and have success in friendship. Make sure you comment, share, pin and all the other fun stuff. Be sure to leave your links so I can come visit you. See you next Sunday for an all new post 🙂

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